【新年心愿】Do your own digital detox断网瘾，刷新生活,悉尼环雅微信公众号文章

How to do your own digital detox (and succeed)

断网瘾，刷新生活

Giving up screen time can be as challenging as quitting smoking or dieting. Psychologist Jocelyn Brewer explains how you can make a lasting change.

如今戒网瘾就同戒烟或减肥一样具有挑战性。下面我们给你支了5招，帮你更健康地使用各种移动设备。但是，靠不靠谱，还得看你自己的行动了！

Always being connected puts people at risk of burnout.

It’s the time of year where many of us take a break. Increasingly that break comes with the need to unplug and announce to your networks (especially your professional ones) that you’re unplugging.

Taking time out from work, and by inextricable association, from technology is important for our overall wellbeing. We all benefit from taking time to decompress and reflect on the year we’re farewelling, allowing ourselves to re-calibrate and rejuvenate, ready to take another trip around the sun.

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unplug 拔去，不用插座

inextricable无法摆脱的

decompress 减压，放松

re-calibrate 再校准，重新校准

rejuvenat 回复青春

• The sound of silence: a week unplugged
• How to create the perfect sleeping environment

Digital detoxing and the trend towards a course-correction on our tech-saturated lives is being widely ‍heralded this season.

While many of us may need to reign in unfettered tech-habits and sever auto-pilot logins and check-ins, long term behaviour change takes much more effort and planning than a handful of days away from technology in order to be successful and sustainable.

Importantly it’s the cognitions – the thoughts, perceptions and understandings – that accompany the online content we create and consume that requires reconsideration.

Detoxes and fad diets don’t work, there is no magic bullet for weight loss – similarly with tech detoxing, you need to reshape your thinking to see the change.

解读

断网瘾就跟减肥一样，别期待会有颗神奇小药丸拯救你。还是要先改变思维方式，再靠行动维持。

tech-saturated 科技饱和的

herald 传达，预告

reign 掌握主权

unfetter 打开的脚镣，释放

sever 切断，割断

auto-pilot 自动驾驶

cognition 认知

fad 时尚

Some people have a hard time getting through a shave without checking Tinder for matches.

1. Take an audit of your time online

统计一下你总的上网时间。

Moment app is a great way to come face to face with just how often your pick up your phone and how much time is spent ‘blue facing’each day. Data helps provide evidence for our desire to change and benchmark how big the issue actually is. You can use several plug-ins to monitor desktop use too.

2. Set realistic guidelines for your use of technology

设一个合情合理的改进目标。

You don’t need to go cold turkey. In fact, being too restrictive might just mean you binge-use your digital devices when you get back online. Behonest, you want to see what others are up to and keep connected – honour that in a way that balances presence with scrolling. Set small, clear and attainable ‘rules’ that you have a chance of being successful in achieving (you can tighten these as you get better weaning yourself off old habits).

This might be things like:

• Not texting while walking (or driving!).

• Having a ‘digital sunset’ by setting an alarm each night for around an hour before your bedtime to remind you to turn all your screens off.

• Using flight mode more often.

• Doing errands and small trips without your phone (for example, to do the shopping or in a gym class).

3. Complete a digital de-clutter

完成数字世界的优化

Spend time (and it will take some time if you don’t do it regularly !) to streamline and organise what you see online, in your social media feeds and your inbox.

• Back up your phone, photos and files.

• Delete old photos and apps off your phone.

• Curate your newsfeed more effectively by unliking/unfollowing groups/pages on social media that you don’t feel you get benefit from. Try software like Just Unfollow to do this effectively.

• Unfollow friends who might not contribute usefully to your news feed (you don’t need to defriend them to keep them out of your newsfeed!).

• Change your notifications so you only get the most important updates (I get Facebook private messages and event invites emailed to me so I don’t feel like I am missing out too much on personalised communication).

• Archive old messages from your inboxes.

• Use unroll me to cleanup your email subscriptions (or simply unsubscribe what you usually delete).

解读

benchmark 检测

scroll 滚动

errand 差事，使命

de-clutter 去噪杂，组织，优先化

streamline 流线型

curate 策展，组织

Experts don’t recommend going cold turkey as this may make users prone to ‘tech binges’

4. Communicate expectations about email responses

同合作伙伴交流一下回复邮件的期待反应时。

Many people have made a rod for their own back when it comes to being responsive and communicative to work emails, creating an always-on head space which adds to risk of burn out.

It might be that you need to communicate expectations around when people can expect to receive responses. Some recommend setting a permanent auto-reply that outlines to people your email checking habits.Others use the five sentences method to discipline emails into manageable communication. I also have started using ‘voice memo’ on my phone to record replies rather than type them out.

5. Catch, check and change your thinking

捕捉、检讨随后改变你的想法。

These are The Three C’s of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and they’re helpful to apply when noticing your thoughts and feelings when using technology and in order to bring more mindfulness, meaning and moderation to our use of technology. When you master noticing and compassionately reframing your thoughts, you can shape your behaviour more effectively.

Catch yourself having unhelpful thoughts when viewing friends’posts and comparing yourself to them, or scrolling mindlessly without registering what you’re seeing in a newsfeed.

Check the thought – is it true (are they really living a perfect life? are you seeing the whole picture?), is it helpful (to beat yourself up for not making it to the gym).

Change the thoughts – flip the thinking to be more balanced,adjusted and to understand the mechanisms behind some of the social media we consume. It’s part of being a good digital citizen and improving media literacy.

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rod 杆，棒条